Cruella Deville and the Fear of Strong Women

I was watching 101 Dalmatians earlier and something struck me. We all know Cruella Deville, she is completely insane. She wants to skin adorable puppies for their coats. What kind of sick person would do that? Noone! Then I thought about when the movie was made. It came out in 1961 based on a book published in 1956. Then it struck me, Cruella Deville is what people were afraid strong women would be.  Don’t believe me? Let us contrast her with the other women in the movie.

Both of them fulfill typically femine roles: wife and domestic servant. The nanny has some spunk, but she only brings it out at the “appropriate” times. Anita lets Roger handle most everything, because he’s the man and that’s his job. Cruella has no one. The two men she works with are imbeciles so she ends up having to do everything herself. In the live action version, she condemms marriage by saying “More women have been lost to marriage than to war, famine, disease or disaster.” The problem is that she is an exaggeration. Noone (at least I hope noone) is that crazy. Cruella is the monster that people in the 50s and 60s told their kids about at night. They were so afraid of the strong woman that she became Cruella. “Strong, independently wealthy women are dangerous.” “They’ll destroy us all.”

I’m interested to hear your thoughts on this.  Is Cruella Deville a paranoid fantasy from a bygone era or have I gone too far? Comment and let me know!

11 Reasons Why You MUST Get Internship Experience in College (written by Career Expert, Pete Leibman)

Great advice for all of the college students out there. If you’re looking for that internship now, check out this website.
http://www.campusjob.com/refer/laurenc

Career Muscles (by Pete Leibman)

As one would expect, recent research from the National Association of Colleges and Employers (NACE) proves that students with internship experience are significantly more likely to get hired after college than peers lacking internship experience. NACE’s research also shows that students with internship experience tend to have much higher starting salaries than students without such experience. Here are 11 specific reasons why internship experience in college is so essential for career success after graduation.

  1. Internships demonstrate initiative. Every employer (or graduate school) wants “go-getters.” Given that internships are usually not required in college, such experience will prove that you are proactive about career development.
  2. Internships help you learn more about yourself. Through an internship, you can gain clarity on your strengths, weaknesses, and interests. Equally important, you can also learn what you don’t enjoy doing.
  3. Internships enhance your resume. Worried about having a solid resume? Internship experience can fix that…

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Is Romance Devolving?—50 Shades vs. No One Puts Baby in a Corner

Honestly, I didn’t like Dirty Dancing but I will take it a million times over the garbage our society accepts now.

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Image courtesy of Lisa Weidmeier WANA Commons. Image courtesy of Lisa Weidmeier WANA Commons.

I’d hoped I wouldn’t have to go here, but alas, here we are. Today, 50 Shades of Grey the MOVIE will open for…*record screech* Valentine’s Day. Nothing says I love you like predatory emotional manipulation, sociopathy, abuse and non-consensual sex acts.

Find THAT on a Hallmark card.

And yes, I know there have been other kinky books like this, but 50 Shades sold over 100 million copies and the movie (despite ZERO plot) is expected to gross in excess of $60 million which means I just threw up a little in my mouth this “story” has tipped from fringe to mainstream and that scares me more than a little bit.

No, I didn’t read the book. I don’t need to. Nor do I need to watch gang-rape prison porn to know it probably is unhealthy for the future of women (or even men)…

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